Which software for PC/Mac I can use to connect my iX3M / iX3M 2 / iDive Sport / iDive COLOR for personalization/update?
Use the Ratio ToolBox for the personalization/update of your unit:
https://www.ratio-computers.com/support/support4/support_toolbox_main.htm
After you successfully connect your unit with the Ratio ToolBox you can use Subsurface to download the dives:
https://subsurface.github.io/download/